Sometimes you get these women — typically career girls Age 28+, and definitely 35+ — who have some kind of “I don’t need a man, but I want someone to talk to, to do fun things with, to hang out with, and of course to have sex with.” And what’s wrong with that?
The natural outcome of this line of reasoning is: Friends With Benefits. I also want someone to talk to, to do fun things with, and to hang out with. This is what Men do with their other Men friends. We are Friends. With a Woman, you can also be Friends With Benefits. There is no expectation of monogamy, and certainly no living together. Actually, Men friends often live together, because they don’t have sex together. But, when a man and a woman live together and have sex together, then things become complicated.
Marriage, and monogamy, are primarily frameworks for raising children. If you don’t want to have children, or you can’t, then there isn’t much reason for it. It might work well, but the risks and restrictions are too great, when you can just be Friends With Benefits. Women have a natural tendency toward monogamy, because they want a Man who will protect, provide, and be a Father for her children. The only women who passed on their genes are those that did this; so there is a natural urge to do this. An exclusive “relationship” is really a kind of marriage-lite, or preparation for marriage. It is a degenerate form, that doesn’t exist where Courtship is the normal path to Marriage.
Women today, of the careerist 28+-ish type, naturally feel a conflict between having children and working full time; or having children and their present age, plus working full-time; or maybe just spending the rest of their lives, or at least 20 years, with some guy that she likes, but not that much. This leads to the aversion to children.
All of this leads to a conclusion that if a woman wants to have children and a family, she should get married; otherwise, maybe not. If a woman wants to have children, she should arrange to do so, rather than ending up with a full-time job and student loan debt. She might have a job, but she should expect to quit her job upon giving birth, or a little earlier; and this requires a husband. You might as well just do that first, and leave the rest for later.
