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GenX was, for the most part, pretty slutty. However, “going on dates” was not something that people did. I managed to get married, and cohabited with a couple other women before then, but I can’t remember “going on a date.” I’m not the only one:

Sigma Frame asks: What Is The Value of High-IQ Women? First, let’s separate “midwit” high IQ (around 120 IQ, or Top 10%), with seriously high IQ, 130+ and maybe 150+. In the past, I have known two high-IQ women, 130+ and 150+ (my estimate). I could have married either of them. Although the sample sizeContinue reading “What Is The Value of High-IQ Women?”

Stats on women who take their husband’s name after marriage.

We reviewed the “Purity Culture” era of the 1990s and 2000s, and concluded that they did a few things right, and a few things wrong. They focused too much on “Purity,” and not enough on Marriage. In the past, young women lived at their father’s house, in a state of chastity, until marriage. But, theyContinue reading “Secular Purity Culture”

As you watch these silly people, it becomes clear that most people are Herd Followers. This is the way it is, and the way it has always been. They despair because they can tell the Herd is not going in a direction that is going to work very well. However, they can’t take any actionContinue reading “Herd Followers”

It’s painful to watch people make one mistake after another. Today, many parents are finally figuring out that “dating” is a dysfunctional mess. The solution: “No Dating Until You Are 30.” The correct solution is Courtship, which you can read about in any Jane Austen novel. Basically, a woman is “presented to society” around AgeContinue reading “No Dating Until 30”

“Dating” appeared around the late 19th century, as young women left the home to work in cities. Young men were going to cities to work, and there was nobody for young women in rural farming towns. All of this was nicely chronicled in Labor of Love (2016), by Moira Weigel. Before 1900, any young womanContinue reading “Dating Is Worse Than Prostitution”

From Jim’s Blog. If you do not perform the mating dance correctly, will not have sex, family, children, and grandchildren. Men conquer and women surrender, but men perform and women choose. Women are frightened by male attention. They don’t want it and they do want it. They are afraid of it and run away, andContinue reading “The Mating Dance”

We continue to archive writings from Jim’s Blog: — * — * — It is a sexual recession. Man and women are not getting sex and children. It is a sexual secession. Men and women are going separate ways (which results in no one getting sex and children) Surveys show men and women are bothContinue reading “Sexcession”

We have been collecting some of the marriage and family writings from Jim’s Blog here. One of the interesting points here is that a woman wants a man that possesses her completely (and thus punishes transgressions to monogamy), because those are the only conditions under which a man will invest his time, money and attentionContinue reading “Women Want Fried Ice”