Never Been Kissed Girls

There may be more 21yo “never been kissed” girls today than in the last 100 years. In the 1950s, half of women were married by 21. “Cassie” has never been kissed. But, she has 3m followers. “Annelise” dropped two new flavors of virginity: “never had prolonged eye contact,” and “never had a conversation with aContinue reading “Never Been Kissed Girls”

53% of Singles Age 18-30 Did Not Have Sex In The Last 12 Months

Hookup culture has gone missing. As you probably guessed, more Men than Women were in this category. But, the stats for Women also rose. 43% of Men — including married and non-single — between 18-30 reported no sex partners in 2021. 2021 was a Covid year, so maybe the figures have recovered since then. Or,Continue reading “53% of Singles Age 18-30 Did Not Have Sex In The Last 12 Months”

No-Nup Agreements

What if we just didn’t “get married,” but lived together, were basically monogamous, and raised children together? We are effectively married, in “common law marriage.” “Common law marriage” is not just the State pulling the rug on you with fine print. It is the “Natural Law” that exists even without the State. Humans just “getContinue reading “No-Nup Agreements”

Don’t Send Your Daughters to College

This was not always the case. When women began attending colleges in the late 19th century, the primary purpose of this was, I would say, to find husbands among the men who also attended college (under 5% of men in those days), and also, to have the kind of educated background that a man ofContinue reading “Don’t Send Your Daughters to College”

The 1990s Cohort (updated)

The people born in the 1990s are now between 25 and 35 years old. Let’s see how they’re doing: Not so well. It would be interesting to limit this to Non-Hispanic Whites. The destruction of the Black Family skewed the statistics for the 1970s and 1980s generation. Non-Hispanic Whites mostly managed to get married, withContinue reading “The 1990s Cohort (updated)”

The Difficulties of a Selective Strategy

Men have two basic ways of dealing with women: The first is to take an estimate of the average of women, putting them all in a group, and then devising a strategy to deal with this average. This is already quite difficult. You have to get a reasonable understanding of “women’s behavior.” This term isContinue reading “The Difficulties of a Selective Strategy”

What’s Wrong With “Transactional?”

What’s wrong with “transactional relationships?” Most of our dealings in the world are “transactional.” We might spend 15 years at an employer, without much in the way of “romance.” We just benefit from cooperation. These can be happy times. Indeed, “romance” can be a problem with employers. They would rather praise you than pay you.Continue reading “What’s Wrong With “Transactional?””