Around here, we encourage women to be stay-at-home homemakers.
But, if you are one of those high-earning married women in a dual-income household with children, and with more money than time, then consider getting a live-in housekeeper.
This used to be common in — not only the upper class — but the upper middle class, and even when Moms also stayed at home.
A housekeeper doesn’t need to be paid much, since she would have almost all of her living expenses covered. You would still have to pay minimum wage of course, but that is only about $20,000/yr.