Hoe_math, on Youtube, is fun in general. In this video, he takes what we already know, but puts it in basic terms that maybe even a woman can understand.

We will have to enforce monogamy, eventually. At the very least, make whoring less profitable, by changing the divorce laws. Until then, we are basically on good behavior. You have to find a woman who is going to self-enforce monogamy. Often these are not hard to identify, because they are virgins.

There may be more 21yo “never been kissed” girls today than in the last 100 years.

In the 1950s, half of women were married by 21.

“Cassie” has never been kissed. But, she has 3m followers.

@cassiesbooktok

Had to do this one

♬ Sweet Heat Lightning – Gregory Alan Isakov

“Annelise” dropped two new flavors of virginity: “never had prolonged eye contact,” and “never had a conversation with a male.”

Is she trolling?

Hookup culture has gone missing.

As you probably guessed, more Men than Women were in this category. But, the stats for Women also rose.

43% of Men — including married and non-single — between 18-30 reported no sex partners in 2021.

2021 was a Covid year, so maybe the figures have recovered since then. Or, maybe even with the bars reopening, they got even worse. We’ll see.

Change is here.

This is good:

These are by decade. The oldest born in the 1990s decade (1990) are 35 today, and the youngest are 26. The fuzzy lines seem to be projections for the younger cohort per decade.

The oldest of the 2000s group is 25, and the youngest is 16. They are not off to a good start here.

In the past, most women got married around 18-22, with a peak around 20. Men were about 3 years later, 21-25. This was the norm until about 1970.

Today, it looks like about 15% of the 2000s will be married by 25.

Today, I think there really is a cohort of young women who, at Age 16, imagine that they will be married by 22 and have seven children by Age 35.

It is not a majority, but it might be 15% or so. This is not a large number, but it appears that it is still a lot larger group than the turbo-sluts and OF girls, which get a lot of attention but seem to be less than 10% of women.

But, they just can’t get it done.

Of course we should avoid the sluts, the career girls, and those that accidentally got stuck on the cock carousel.

But, we should find these wifey girls and marry them around 18-20, while they are still virgins.

The total fertility rate for the US is well below replacement levels. However, even this includes about 40% of births to unwed mothers, and 25% among White mothers. What is the fertility rate among non-Hispanic White women alone? I think it is pretty low.

Hey White girls:

The White Race has a long and glorious history, that you are a part of. Keep it going!

Don’t make any babies with Black or Hispanic men. Asians are not so bad, but it would be best if you stick with your White brothers.

White Babies please.

Get married first.

Get married young.

No sex before marriage. Get married young, and then have a lot of sex.

In the past, the primary way that young women got married was Family and Friends. Mostly, their Mom helped them find a husband.

Plan on being a Stay At Home Mom, and having a lot of babies, at least four before you turn 30.

You can stay at home and live with your father until you are married. Then, you don’t have to learn a trade, and can avoid any student debt. You should still educate yourself, because you will have to educate the next generation (your children) of the White Race, and White Americans.

Read lots of good books. Mostly, old ones, before 1910.

I recommend the eleven-volume Story of Civilization series, by Will Durant. Learn the history of the White Race.

No vaccines.

Breastfeeding only.

Homeschool.

Cook healthy food at home.

Not too much screen time. I recommend NO screens before Age 6. It is very tempting, but don’t do it.

Get together with the other young White moms, and let your children play together.

Forget about the other bitches. Don’t imitate them.

What if we just didn’t “get married,” but lived together, were basically monogamous, and raised children together? We are effectively married, in “common law marriage.” “Common law marriage” is not just the State pulling the rug on you with fine print. It is the “Natural Law” that exists even without the State. Humans just “get married,” whether or not there is any legal aspect to it.

Sigma Frame observes that for most of the history of the West, this “Natural Law marriage” was the norm. The State was just not involved. It was like a live-in girlfriend/boyfriend relationship today. This is actually “Biblical” in the sense that it was what the people in the Bible actually did, when they “got married.”

With legal marriage a disaster today, both men and women are trending toward Common Law marriage as an alternative. Sigma Frame suggests that women’s behavior also changes dramatically when she has a Legal Marriage. Basically, she has the State to tear your arms and legs off at her whim. Men naturally avoid this. Mostly this is just feeling your way in the dark these days, but I think that a more deliberate embrace of Common Law Marriage may be a good way of proceeding until the regular Marriage Laws are fixed; or, perhaps, mostly eliminated.

This is more common in Europe, where young people are often establishing families without legal marriage.

I think it is good to have a formal recognition of marriage, or a wedding, but in the Common Law sense — a church service. An agreement between husband and wife, family and friends. Maybe even a written agreement, which, without enforcement of the State, amounts to: vows. Don’t involve the State. Don’t sign any Marriage Licenses or Birth Certificates, which, among other things, are an agreement to sell your children into slavery.

This was not always the case. When women began attending colleges in the late 19th century, the primary purpose of this was, I would say, to find husbands among the men who also attended college (under 5% of men in those days), and also, to have the kind of educated background that a man of that sort would want in a wife, to raise his children and take a positive role in society. I think there was also an element of career prep, mostly as a schoolteacher, which was a typical job for a young woman before she married.

Basically, Anne of Green Gables.

This general pattern persisted into the 1960s. Women mostly went to college to find husbands, and to be trained to be the kind of wife that such a husband would want. Typically this was in arts and literature, maybe history.

Today, women don’t find husbands at college. Mostly, they avoid any kind of lasting connection, that would cause problems after college. For example, what do you do when you are attached to a man that is two years older (the norm), and he graduates and moves to a new city to begin work? In the past, women would quit college, without graduating, and move to the new city with her new husband. Maybe she would transfer credits and finish her degree in the new city.

So, college romances (if we can even use that term today) are typically intended to be short-term and provisional from the start.

The education a woman received, prior to 1970, was actually quite useful and important. Basically, look at the Hillsdale College curriculum today, which was probably pretty similar to what most colleges offered in the 1950s. We would want women to be educated in the elements of the civilization that they would take part in and pass on to their children, although typically more in the arts and literature sphere than government or science. This actually provided a nice complement to a man who was involved in business and politics.

We have a serious problem today in that the very best girls, typically from intact upper-income families, are channeled into college and careerism from an early age, and certainly by Age 17. When are you supposed to marry these girls? How? Often they are already rather a mess by the time they become “available” around Age 22, or Age 25 — either due to sluttishness and debauchery, or careerism, or all the Leftist garbage they picked up in college, or a general attitude that they can put off family until their 30s.

There are actually some very nice girls around Age 19, virgins, but you can’t exactly hang around the college to meet these girls, and they are probably already serious Leftist knuckleheads by then. Probably you would either have to know them from earlier, when they were living with their parents, or be introduced by their parents. Not exactly easy.

Churches are probably a good place to look, not for the Age 28+ and Single Moms that are looking for husbands in churches, but for the daughters Age 16-18 of families at church.

The people born in the 1990s are now between 25 and 35 years old. Let’s see how they’re doing:

Not so well.

It would be interesting to limit this to Non-Hispanic Whites. The destruction of the Black Family skewed the statistics for the 1970s and 1980s generation. Non-Hispanic Whites mostly managed to get married, with about 92% marrying at some point.

The grey band was an earlier projection. As we can see, it was completely off. It looks like this might finally normalize around 40%, about ten or fifteen years from now. That probably means 50% for Non-Hispanic Whites, which is actually just around my prior predictions.

But, most of this future result is being determined now. In the past, if you were not already in a relationship at Age 30 — actually “single” — a woman had only about a 20% chance of getting married. Many people married around 32 or 33, to people that they became attached to in their late 20s.

Today, with the average time from first “connection” to marriage about five years, we are seeing the results from the pre-Covid era and also pre-RedPill era, when MGTOW (remember that one?) was still a small group. Today, it has become much more mainstream. Also, since 2019 or so, we’ve seen the collapse of dating apps as a functional means of interaction. Actually, they always were, but now nobody expects any success here. Anyway, the curve of marriage over the next five years or so is being set now; and it doesn’t look very good if you ask me.

Men have two basic ways of dealing with women:

The first is to take an estimate of the average of women, putting them all in a group, and then devising a strategy to deal with this average.

This is already quite difficult. You have to get a reasonable understanding of “women’s behavior.” This term is already an “average.” Individual women have different behaviors. If we group them all into one overall assessment, we have “women’s behavior.” Then, we have to devise a strategy of how to deal with this. Probably, this involves a series of planned and then practiced responses in a variety of social situations. Pickup “game” is one such series of planned and practiced responses or strategies. A man who is not interested in being a manwhore, but is actually looking for a monogamous girlfriend or a wife, might have a different series of planned and practiced responses. Or, a man might conclude that women today, in general, as a rule, are nothing but trouble. He will minimize contact and interaction, basically to reduce risk and avoid difficulty.

Today, many men have concluded, in America in 2025, women “on average” are unsuited to be wives, and unsuited even to be girlfriends. This does not leave much role for them. Probably, they are also unsuited to be employees, in many cases, except for fairly simple jobs (sales clerk) or traditional women’s roles (nurse or real estate agent). From this we establish a series of strategies, which are then implemented into practice. Part of this assessment is related to the legal situation today, which is terribly hostile to men and families. We can appreciate that, whatever the legal situation is, nevertheless there are some good wives out there. They made a choice to be good wives, and they are, no matter what the laws are. But, we can also appreciate that, women who destroy their families and husbands in divorce court, or destroy their male co-workers with false accusations, are also making a choice. Whatever the laws are, they didn’t have to do that. Most women don’t. But, if even 10% of women do, it is too high a risk for men.

I actually agree with this assessment. But, I do not recommend that a young man today take this approach. This leaves basically a Selective Strategy. I’ve said that we have to Take A Stand with the Top 30% of women. This includes the uglies, who are nevertheless capable of being a Good Wife and a Good Mother, and whom we can pair with equally ugly men.

But now things get very complicated. It is hard enough to generate a series of social skills and strategies appropriate for various situations. Now we have to determine not only “women’s behavior,” or one assessment for the average, but behavior for certain groupings, which we also have to determine. There is a certain, fairly large, population of rather nice and family-minded young women in their twenties, who are nearly involuntary celibates. Basically, despite their imperfections, they are in our Top 30%. We have to be able to define the characteristics of this group; figure out their behaviors; and then figure out what to do with them. Then there are other classes of women, in our somewhat arbitrary but necessary classification system, which we also have to reliably identify and then devise strategies for. Practicing just one series of strategies and behaviors is hard enough. But, practicing a series of very different strategies, for different times and different sorts of women, becomes quite difficult indeed.

This is a demanding challenge for anyone, but particularly for a young man.

Maybe I am making it too difficult. We can eliminate pretty easily some groups:

Too old (over 35)
Single Moms (including divorced)
Divorced
Uglies
Confirmed Sluts
Excessive tattoos, nose rings, etc. (but some Nice Girls have this today)
Married to the Corporation
Feminist nutjobs

Unfortunately, most of our Top 30% of women, or even the Top 10%, are going to have significant problems, including Leftist brainwashing, possibly grew up in a single-parent household, a sordid history of attempted relationships that never amounted to more than situationships, and on and on. Mostly, it is better if you get them young; and, girls who are enthusiastic about being Stay At Home Moms with multiple children.

It might seem that sticking with the Top 30% means that 70% of men would have nobody. It seems like there is a shortage of good women. But, there is also a shortage of men that want to pursue home and family in today’s environment. Since only about 10% of men might follow this strategy I am laying out, there are actually plenty of women for these men.

Tragically, the very best girls, basically from intact Upper Middle Class families, and virgins, are almost certain to be channeled into College and Career. Some even survive this, but mostly you are going to have to start around Age 16 and maybe up to about 19.