One of the funny things that happens is that the “red pill” types, who tend to be coolly analytical and not attached to any predefined moral code, end up being more “traditional” than all but the most ardent Christians. This was my conclusion too: that you would either have Courtship or chaos, and if you choose Courtship, then everything that is contrary to that pattern will have to be discarded. This is the “realistic guide to men getting married,” a classic from Men 101 (formerly MGTOW 101) on YouTube. Women could also learn a lot from this.