Hypergamy Once

Should women not practice “hypergamy”? This is like telling men that they should marry fat, ugly women — a popular idea among fat, ugly women today, but not gonna happen. It is natural for a woman to wish to marry a man that is, in her view, more desirable than her alternatives.

However, in the past, women practiced hypergamy once — during the courtship process. Afterwards, she lived with the man she married. Today, women’s desire to keep trading up leads her to repeatedly dump one boyfriend for another, during her younger years. (This is known as “monkey-branching.”) After she gets married, she repeats this process, eventually dumping her husband for another man, or even just the potential to find another man. Along the way, several things happen: a woman is becoming less and less attractive to men, the farther she strays from her original state as a Debt-Free Virgin Without Tattoos. Not only is she getting older, but she picks up baggage such as children and tattoos. Plus, her sordid history just keeps getting longer and longer, along with all the emotional damage, hormonal burn-out, accumulating resentment and related bad habits. Men rationally conclude that this woman is not suited to long-term commitment, since her habit of breaking relationships means that no man can safely invest any time, money, or emotional attachment in her. Her relationships get shorter and more transient. Eventually, she ends up with nothing, except perhaps a few ill-raised children.

Another aspect of hypergamy today is the tendency for women to pursue men far above her “marriage marketplace value.” It is not hard for an average woman (5/10 to 7/10; we will exclude the Fuglies below 5/10) to have sex with a well-above-average, or let’s say Top 10% man. But, the Top 10% Man can have sex with 80% of the women only if they do not commit to any one woman. In other words, if a Top 10% man is available (not already in a marriage or long-term commitment), it is because he will absolutely never, never marry you, or even engage in an “exclusive” relationship of some sort. For a woman, this Hypergamy, in the form of a woman’s desire to have sex with and form a committed relationship with a Top 10% man, will result in a pattern of being repeatedly dumped, or “cheated on.” In other words, it will produce a pattern not of becoming a Wife, or even a Girlfriend (monogamous relationship with emotional commitment), but Friends With Benefits at best. Since this is inherently unstable and short-term, the woman soon ends up with a string of such relationships. In the past, this outcome was prevented by the practice of not having sex before marriage. On a lesser scale, but common in the past, it was prevented by the practice of developing a sort of committed (monogamous) boyfriend/girlfriend relationship first (aka “love”), to which sex is added some considerable time later.

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One thought on “Hypergamy Once

  1. Ezekiel 16:32 You unfaithful wife! You desire strangers instead of your husband.

    It is because they have whoring hearts. Which is what they are taught, because, instead of correcting whores, the Feminist churches have become a Great Whore, a Mother of Harlots. They don’t want Christ, they all just whore after the world. Even the “fuglies” in church are taught to want a top tier husband, and then to cheat on him, because they want and have been taught that they deserve more.

    1 Corinthians 11:7 For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man. 8 For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man. 9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.

    Things would be much better If all women were taught, like the original apostolic and patristic age churches taught, that women are not equal to men, but a second class of created human, not in the image of God, but made inferior to serve her superior, who is to image God or represent Christ to her, and she is to submit to him in everything as unto the Lord, while she images the church, not God.(Ephesians 5:22-27)
    These whoring ingrates do really image the churches they are brought up in perfectly. They whore after the whole world, but have no interest in obeying Christ nor giving their bodies to Christ as a living sacrifice. They are in fact ashamed of Jesus Christ and of His words in this adulterous and sinful generation.

    Mark 8:38 Whosoever therefore shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation; of him also shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he cometh in the glory of his Father with the holy angels.

    And Christ will not spend eternity cucked and surrounded by those unfaithful ones whom He is rightly ashamed of. Those Christ is ashamed of, will not be claimed as part of His bride, but will be cast into the lake of eternal fire.

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