Paying For The Sins Of Their Sisters and Mothers

Young women today — many of whom are actually virgins — are not really to blame for the terrible state of affairs between men and women today. They are paying the price for the sins of their older sisters, and their mothers. In the 1990s, women whored through their twenties, and then decided to become wives around Age 28-32. Mostly, men married these whores. It didn’t work out well. We now look back on all the marriages from the 1990s and 2000s, and we say: what a disaster.

Especially with MeToo, men began to distance themselves from women in the workplace, avoiding any interaction beyond the necessities of business, or any situation where a man and a woman were alone together. The “metoo” term began in 2006, but its widespread use began in 2017 — when today’s 20 year olds were 12 years old. The behavior of men was a rational response to an epidemic of false claims by women in the corporate setting, which was also reflected, somewhat, in a pattern of false claims in universities.

Behind all this were the horrible and corrupt laws of the land, expressed in divorce courts, and also corporations that were sued by women employees for one thing or another. Nevertheless, women did not hesitate to use these advantages, thus expressing their moral complicity, and also, ultimate responsibility. There were also many millions of women who did not use the divorce courts to pillage their husbands and steal his children. Without the voluntary actions of women, nothing at all would have happened.

Especially since most men are older than the women they are interested in, it is easy to blame these women for things that they probably don’t even know about. They simply enter a society with certain patterns, without knowing where these patterns came from. The marriage-minded man of 27 already has perhaps five years of workplace woman-avoidance behind him, hardened into unthinking habit. The 20 year old woman that he might be interested in knows nothing of this.

Basically, it comes down to Telling The Bitches What To Do. There is no real point in discussing these things, because they don’t know what you are talking about. They weren’t there. So, you just tell them what to do. The nice thing is that many of these younger women can probably be made useful, as wives and mothers.

The first thing to Tell Them Not To Do is wear nose rings, or get tattoos. Just say: Don’t Do It.

Meanwhile, At The University

Recent report from a university.

Personally, I don’t think there is any particular “reason.” Young people pick up cues from their environment. “Don’t look and don’t talk” is now the norm in every mainstream corporate office, and a lot of gyms as well. I don’t think the situation at universities has become so dire that it is necessary there too.

If I was a young person at a university today, I would buck this trend, and make a habit of talking with women (or men) regularly. We used to have dinner parties every Wednesday while in college. It was a constantly rotating mix of regulars and new faces. That’s what I would do, today.

The Rise of Sexless Marriages

Wives withholding sex as a means of manipulation, or even because they plain dislike their husbands, must have been common throughout history. But, it has been becoming more common. Here is a YouTube video with some statistics:

There are a few reasons for this I can imagine:

Falling Testosterone in Men
Married men getting uglier — primarily obesity
Married women getting uglier
Porn

To this we can add a few more:

Feminism making women more exploitive and manipulative than in the past.
More premarital sexual partners means less satisfaction with the man she married. (Alpha Widowing.)
More premarital sexual partners reducing women’s pairbonding capability.
More premarital sexual partners leading to a lack of trust in men, and a tendency towards exploitive behavior. (Slut to Harlot pipeline.)

This is leading to a decline in sex in general.

Even whorish girls don’t get as much sex as a married woman; or a woman in a live-in relationship. Ten guys a year is a lot. It is a hundred bodies in a decade. But that might mean 355 sexless nights a year. And those girls who are not so whorish often get almost nothing. They “put themselves out there,” and attempt to start a monogamous relationship. They end up in situationships or ghosted after a few weeks. Do this two or three times a year, and even without any intentional hookups, you end up with a high body count, and probably a lot of lonely nights as well.

Online dating, in particular, has made many men feel that they have been locked out of the “dating market.” This is not quite true — although women like to go on and on about their “high standards,” most of them are hooking up with what men would consider broke losers. The “high standards” thing is often complete cosplay — fiction with no real-world significance — or an actual effort by women to break the habit of hooking up with broke losers.

Priorities of Young Men and Women

This is amazing.

The highest priority for young men who voted for Trump is: Having Children!

The lowest priority for young women who voted for Harris is: Having Children!

Only 6% of female Harris voters said that they thought Getting Married and Having Children is important.

This is very bad when you consider that most young women are Democrat voters. (58% of Gen Z women voted for Harris, while 56% of Gen Z men voted for Trump.)

Meanwhile:

Among that minority of Trump-voting young women, we find Being Married and Having Children still way down the list, but at least making a decent showing. At the top are Financial Independence and Fulfilling Job/Career, followed by Owning Own Home. I don’t think they mean that their husband has financial independence and owns the shared family home. Even in this Trump-voting minority, young women are all-in on Independence. Of course they will change their mind later. But, during the Peak Marriage Years of 18-22, and up to Age 25, they will be swayed by this kind of indoctrination. Who are those Trump-voting Men going to marry? It is a pretty small pool.

I say that you will have to look for young women — Age 16-22 — who want to be Wives and Mothers. I would prioritize the Stay At Home Wife (and Mother). A woman who prioritizes being a Stay At Home Wife can still work full-time before she becomes a Mother. But, typically, this is not so career-oriented, since she will be planning to leave this job before too long, certainly by Age 26 or so. Peak Childbearing Years are 18-32. You want to have all your children done by Age 32 (at least three), not starting then.

Of course the Stay At Home Wife doesn’t prioritize Financial Independence either, except shared Financial Independence with her husband. She happily lets him pay for everything. But, of course, she is also very frugal, if necessary.

As rare as these women are, they are also underappreciated today. You can even find actual virgins. You just marry them — preferably, before Age 22.

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Finding Your Spouse in College

I agree with this. College is the best place to find a future wife, or husband.

However, this conflicts with the college program itself. Unless a couple is the same age, one will graduate before the other, probably the man since women prefer men a little older. This means that the woman must quit college, to follow her man somewhere. This was actually pretty common in the 1950s and 1960s, when women commonly quit college if they got married. Mission accomplished!

This made some sense in the 1950s and 1960s, when college was not so expensive as today, and also, the people that went to college could afford it. College enrollment was a lot lower then than now, limited to the upper middle class.

For me personally, it was not that hard to find a future wife. But, it would have been very hard to find a wife similar to the girls that I went to college with — basically Top 1% girls, in terms of intelligence and the other sorting factors for top colleges, that still had most of the pleasant virtues they did when they were 20. Today, more than in the past, I have some regret that I did not have children with a High-IQ woman. My own wife is average at best regarding IQ (probably below 100), and our son is a little above average (about 115). I knew some 140+ IQ women, who I probably could have married. That would have been interesting. But, my own wife is still a rather good wife, probably in the Top 10% of wives. So, you don’t have to be all that smart to be good wife. Many high-IQ women are bad wives, if they ever get a chance to be wives.

Today, I think that the High IQ women in particular should plan on having a large number of children with a High IQ man. If you are so lucky, at least four. Then stay home and homeschool them. Any High IQ woman is going to be an exemplary homeschooler. (Homeschooling largely consists of doing what High IQ kids did voluntarily when in school, which is, read a lot of books.)

Most high-IQ women are not that attractive. They tend to be Mid at best; and also, they often do not prioritize clothing, makeup and that sort of thing. Sometimes they get kinda chubby from all the sedentary studying. If you are one of these women, then you should make a serious effort at least in dress and presentation (you don’t need makeup), plus diet (food quality) and exercise.

So, if you happen to be a High IQ woman, remember that you can and should devote a little effort to such things. Just be like Cindy Crawford (IQ reportedly 154):

Cindy is, of course, gorgeous, and hair like that doesn’t just happen by itself. But, makeup here is minimal, and the clothes are nice but certainly achievable. “Naturally gorgeous” might seem like an impossibility to some women today, but I tell you that it is not that hard to achieve if you are 20 years old, and don’t make a mess of things with noserings and short blue hair. No fake boobs or other “enhancements.” (Cindy is, reportedly, a natural 34B.)

I suggest also today that these high-achieving high-IQ girls not only find a future husband at college, but also, remain a virgin before marriage. Actually this is not so hard to do, since many college girls are actually virgins, particularly at the better schools. Since this kind of high-IQ girl also has a strong long-term focus and impulse control, not surprisingly, they are also virgins. Nearly 76% of all Freshmen women at Harvard are virgins.

Since you will probably get married right after graduation anyway, you won’t be waiting that long. If your future husband is a year or two older, then get formally engaged (wear a ring), and finish your studies while he is off somewhere else. Then get married immediately afterwards.

For men, you don’t really need to be able to support a family to get married. You can just get married. Two young people, just out of college, can both work and live more cheaply than one alone. You can also travel if you like. You can go here and there, and instead of whoring with someone you meet along the way, you can just have sex with your husband.

If you find a splendid sort of girl in college, why not just marry her? You won’t find anything better later.

30yo Married Homeowners

In the past, in many cultures, it was customary for a newly married couple (typically under Age 25) to be provided with a new house, basically by parents. No mortgage.

This was a modest house, of course. But, it was still a place to live, and no mortgage.

This was in line with common expectations of “bride price” or dowry. But, instead of paying parents, people would give the new couple some starting capital, or wealth, in the form of a house.

A “house” in those days, for a middle-class couple just starting, might be a 400sf “Little House on the Prairie.” In urban areas, it might be an apartment (today condo) also of about 400sf. 400sf might not seem like much, but it is adequate for a family of four.

For a detached house, it was probably common for parents, and the groom, along with family and friends, to build the house themselves.

What might this look like today?

Basically, a 400sf condo today, in an urban environment, or a similar detached house, should cost about $120,000. This is about $300/sf (woodframe walkup construction) X 400sf.

$120,000 is a lot, but it is an achievable amount, particularly if a similar sum is not expended on college education — or a $40,000 wedding.

I have a friend who bought some land. He is going to build a house there. Basically he will build it himself, with the help of some friends who are specialists in electrical, plumbing etc. Probably, you also have some friends who can do this. (I do.) It would make a nice wedding present. You pay for the materials, and they contribute their time and expertise.

The Virgin Chronicles

Probably more under-25 virgins out there now than in the last fifty years.

Not all ugly girls either.

@quinlyn_rose

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10/10 girl:

https://www.tiktok.com/@notalyssakulani/video/7166815862857485573

Born bikini model.

Special recognition for holding-hands virgins. Side quest achieved!

Nevertheless, the goal is not to remain a virgin. It is to get married young, 18-22, and then have a big family.

Nun Girl Summer

Young women are booking quiet time at the convent. Very quiet time.

Unfortunately, convents can’t handle the demand. So women are getting waitlisted.