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A “Sex Goddess” is not a slut. Nope. A Good Girl can be a sex goddess. You are going to be doing something together for the next forty years, so you might as well do it right. Those babies aren’t going to make themselves. I describe what I mean by a Sex Goddess in theContinue reading “Be A Sex Goddess”

This is a series originally written for men — men who, over and over, do stupid things that they should not do. Thus, they need to be talked to in plain language. I am presenting it here for women, particularly younger women, who still have something left to save. Mostly, it is pretty obvious stuff,Continue reading “Straight Talk for Women, with A. V. Yader”

Basically, if you want a good marriage and family, you better actually do something that produces that result — and from a young age, like 16. If you spent all your time and energy doing everything that is contrary to that result, it might not happen. Unfortunately, women can’t figure this out for themselves, untilContinue reading “Straight Talk for Women, with Suzanne Venker”

Lori Alexander, of The Transformed Wife, wondered why today’s Christians don’t support getting married young. In the past, women got married around age 16-25, with the peak and ideal window around age 18-20. It wasn’t that long ago — the 1950s and 1960s — when the age of first marriage was about the lowest inContinue reading “Getting Married Young”

I estimate that about 20% of American women make good wives. Another 20% or so could have made good wives, but things didn’t work out. The median age of marriage today is about 28, but a woman who gets married at age 28 is often in a relationship with the man she will marry byContinue reading “All Women (after age 26) are Like That”

Marriage and Civilization (2014), by William Tucker, is a worthwhile book for many reasons. Among them is a mention of something that I have not heard anywhere else — the “Family Wage” agreement. The “family wage” emerged in the late 19th century to allow women to withdraw from the workforce. To unregulated capitalism, men, women,Continue reading “The “Family Wage””

Three new churches a day are being built in Russia.

Allyson Rowe, who looked in danger of becoming a professional “Season of Singleness” coach in the manner of Wendy Griffith or Mandy Hale, has recently joined the New Wives club. Now go make some babies.

I guess there is a genre of young mostly Christian women making videos about how to be a better wife, and they are all at least an 8/10. Some of their advice is a little floppy, but if you start with the idea of “what can I do for my husband and family” it isContinue reading “More Advice on How To Be a Good Wife”

Mostly, husbands don’t need that much care. They can take care of themselves. Sometimes, women who want to be good wives go a little overboard in husband-care. That excess energy eventually goes into childcare. Nevertheless, this wife has the right idea, which is: Be productive. Do something beneficial to others.Don’t make problems. Don’t consume tooContinue reading “10 Things Every Wife Needs to Do For Her Husband”