If you start looking into what is actually in those vaccines, you soon find that they contain all kinds of unhealthy stuff, not really related to the vaccine itself. Thus, it should be no surprise that the result of injecting all kinds of unhealthy stuff into your babies is that they have all kinds of health issues afterwards.
http://ipaknowledge.org/ipak-vaxxed-v-unvaxxed-study.php
In the interest of providing good examples, here is a video from YT about “how to be a good wife.” Because, if you are not a good wife, then you are probably a bad wife, making some guy miserable for no good reason.
I haven’t watched this video, but this woman is apparently a homeschooling mother of eleven (!), and you can see the results of her effort with her daughter on the right. Can I also say that, as a housewife in her mid-fifties, she looks great?
Here are two books from the past, recently updated. I haven’t read them, but they seem to be popular in Christian circles today.
The first is Beautiful Girlhood (1922), by Mabel Hale. It is available in Kindle edition for $0.99 here.
It was updated by Karen Andreola, available here.
The second is Winsome Womanhood (1900), by Margaret Sangster (not Margaret Sanger). You can read it in free .pdf here.
It was lightly revised by Shelley Noonan and released as Beyond Beautiful Girlhood, the “next step in the Beautiful Girlhood series.”
I generally prefer original to updated versions. But, if you want a 14yo girl to read it, it can help to have a more contemporary tone.
In the TJed homeschooling method, which is very ambitious, “Scholar phase” includes about 5000-8000 hours of study of high-quality materials. Most people never get this, even those that go to top boarding schools and universities. So, it is recommended that parents who take this seriously give themselves the kind of education that they want to impart on their children. This means about 5000 hours of study. The TJed people recommend that this take the form of about 2 hours a day of study (mostly, reading books), Monday-Friday, or about ten hours a week, fifty weeks a year, for a decade.
Yes, you study two hours a day for a decade. You don’t have to, but the kind of parent who thinks this sort of thing is important for their child, is also the kind of parent who thinks it is important for themselves. So, if you are a young mother thinking about elite-level homeschooling of your children, this is something to begin thinking about, and then, actually doing. Being a full-time Mom isn’t just about cooking and cleaning anymore, is it? Once you start down this path, you will discover how poorly-educated most people are, including those that graduated from top universities.
The Classics list at TJed.org is a good place to start. Or, you might try this: The Well-Educated Mind: The Guide to the Classical Education You Never Had (2003), by Susan Wise Bower.
Many homeschooling Moms do this while their own children are studying. So, while the child is reading Little House on the Prairie, Mom is reading The Spirit of the Laws.
The duties of a first-class mother of infants and toddlers are, for the most part, not so hard. You mostly just feed them and change their diapers. It doesn’t have the complexity and subtlety of homeschooling. Nevertheless, here are some principles, for the period from birth to about the fifth birthday:
Breastfeed. If you aren’t breastfeeding, then you are feeding them chemical factory food, quite likely made from GMOs. Here is a label from a popular brand of baby formula. Avoid this horrible crap.
Music or Silence: Have a house without “noise.” Music (something good and worthwhile, whether actual music, or reading or talking), or silence. Not the silence of outer space, but the silence of nature, like a park or garden. Common forms of “noise” in the house include: popular music constantly on, television and road noise. It also definitely includes toys that have some kind of electronic noise, which is very common today. All our toys are silent.
Have a pretty house. For some reason, moms assume that if you have children, then the children’s mess dominates the house. Children often make a mess of their toys and playthings, but then you clean up and put them away. Even if your house is modest, keep it clean and decluttered. Have a place where the toys get put away at the end of each day. Try to keep toys from accumulating too much. Toys that the child has outgrown, or just never showed much interest in, can be given to younger children or donated. “Noise” includes “visual noise” — clutter and mess. Your house should look like “music.” I don’t like toys and other children’s stuff with garish colors.
A child-safe area. As you child begins to walk, set up an area that is child-safe. Children need a place where they can fool around and play, and not have to hear “don’t do this/don’t touch that” all the time. Fencing and gating can help here.
Child-size things. As children get a little larger, ages 2-5, they can be given child-size things that are easy for them to handle. Probably everyone has some child-size cups or spoons. Child-size furniture is also nice, including perhaps a cabinet with child-size drawers that can be easily opened with big handles. Children like to have a place where they can keep their things.
Keep your baby by you while sleeping. Separating an infant into a separate bedroom is unnatural. Keep your baby near your bed, in a bassinet or at least a crib in the same bedroom.
No screens. It doesn’t take long before moms learn that children are fascinated by video screens. It keeps them quiet for hours. It is very tempting but … don’t do this. I wouldn’t give children screens (tablets, televisions) until maybe age 6 — including “children’s” entertainment, and especially “educational” programs. One problem today is that children often have tablets, which they hold perhaps 8″ from their eyes (they have short arms). This can be very bad for developing eyes.
Avoid wifi. If you can, turn off the wifi. Use internet via Ethernet and USB (cable) if you want to. Microwave radiation (wifi) is particularly bad for children. Many countries ban wifi in schools.
No vaccines. Read up on vaccine damage. I would avoid all vaccines. There are way too many children today with autism and various autoimmune disorders including allergies. When I was a child, people weren’t allergic to peanuts. If you want, you can delay vaccination to at least age 2 or maybe age 6. Vaccines are much riskier, the younger a child is. If you say you are “delaying” vaccination, it can go a lot better with doctors and relatives who think you should vaccinate your children. Also, it gives you six years to learn about the problems of vaccines. For a long time, Japan had no vaccination before age 2, due to the potential damage it can cause. Japan still bans the MMR vaccine due to problems 2000x above normal. There is almost no chance of getting a once-common infectious disease today, even without vaccination. The last known case of polio among a U.S. resident was in 1978. The last known case of polio in all of North and South America was in 1991. Occasionally there are outbreaks of measles, with “hundreds of cases” loudly promoted in the media, and the infected children are, rather suspiciously, those that have recently been given the measles vaccine. What they don’t tell you is that the number of deaths from measles in the U.S., from 2000-2020 (twenty years), is apparently a grand total of: 2. Not 2 per year, just 2. Mortality from nearly all infectious diseases plummeted after 1930, mostly due to better public sanitation and healthcare, and were already at very low levels before the introduction of vaccines.
Good food. Homecooked meals from natural single ingredients. Lots of fruit and vegetables. Eat together as a family every day. Children generally eat the same food as adults (possibly avoiding spicy foods at first). They don’t get to choose. Avoid too much “kids foods,” like a constant diet of cookies, ice cream, hot dogs and pizza. Healthy stuff only.
Get outside in a natural environment. The best place is somewhere naturalistic, like a park or garden, but also a place where moms don’t have to say “don’t do this/don’t go there” all the time.
Play with other children. As children get a little bigger, from about 6m onward, and definitely from about 2yrs, they should be with other children pretty much every day.
If your child is driving you crazy, you aren’t doing it right. Motherhood is not mom and baby alone in the living room for 10 hours straight. That will definitely drive you nuts. The pattern of “parents playing with children” is fine for 20 minutes, but not for longer periods of time. Children play with other children for 10 hours straight, while Mom keeps them out of trouble and feeds them. That is the basic pattern.
Trade off childcare with other Moms. Children can play with other children for 10 hours, every day, but moms probably don’t want to make small talk with other moms for 10 hours, every day. “Playdates” are not so good. If you formalize this process, you might even set up a “daycare co-op” with ten other families, to have a place for the children to play every day, while moms take turns overseeing them. I met one person who set up a co-op like this. They even rented some space that they could use every day. Another friend formed a “mom’s club” of about 5 moms that got together four days a week.
Dress your children well. Nice clothing for toddlers doesn’t cost much. Yes, they will get it dirty — so what? Toss it in the laundry. If you ask around, you can probably get clothing from other moms whose children have outgrown them.
These are some product photos from Oshkosh.com. Companies like Oshkosh or Carter’s are making tons of very nice children’s clothes, and they often cost less than $10 after discounts. The only difficulty is getting parents to actually use the very nice things available. There’s no reason to be a slob. “No t-shirts” for boys and “no tights” for girls is a good rule.
Forget about “school.” Avoid all “school”-type studying at young ages. Studies have shown that pushing children toward “studying” at an early age (before age 5) not only provides no benefit, but it actually produces worse results! You can do a little bit around age 4 (but not earlier), such as the 26 letters and 10 digits. You might try to practice a little reading around age 5. But, this would be about 15 minutes a day, no more. And, if you just skip it, that would be fine too. In the past, children would often have no schooling until about age 8, when their brains have developed enough to process abstract information like words and numbers. Some children will begin to do a little reading from about age 5, but if they don’t, no big deal. Children who begin to read at age 5, and those that begin to read at age 9, have the same reading ability at age 12. The common pattern among homeschoolers is much less study before about age 8, and much more study after age 12.
Read to them. Parents reading to children is OK, from an early age. These should be books that are age-appropriate for the child. The Very Hungry Caterpillar or Elephant and Piggie, not To The Lighthouse. Look into Mother Goose, or Aesop’s Fables. Sing songs.
Basically, surround them with things that are Good, True and Beautiful.
This is study time for Mom. You have a few years to get up to speed on homeschooling. Read books about homeschooling, and continue expanding your own education. Give yourself the kind of education that you want to give to your children — which is probably different than the education you got when you were a child. When they are around age 10-12, they are going to be doing a lot of reading. You need a long head start. “You not Them.”
“What do you bring to the table?” men sometime ask women. A popular response seems to be “I am the table,” which doesn’t even make sense. You are a piece of furniture? I guess the ability to formulate a coherent answer is not something she brings to the table.
I think what she really means is: “my pussy.” That nice … I guess … but usually it is best to rent by the hour. Especially when the woman herself has told you that the rest of her is worthless. A woman of this sort doesn’t even try to lie convincingly. She hasn’t even thought of what a good answer might be. She is not much more than a life-support system for her snatch. A rational man knows exactly what to do with a woman like this.
So, since it seems that many women are not capable of devising a response to this question, even in the form of a plausible lie, I will give you some help:
I am debt-free.
I am not a slut (preferably, a virgin).
I value children and family.
I am under 25.
I reject feminism.
I want to be a good wife and mother.
I want to be a stay-at-home Mom.
I will stay in shape and dress nicely.
I will not Compete, Criticize, Complain or Control.
I believe that women should be cooperative (“submissive”) to their husbands.
Raising our children well is a major life goal for me.
I want to homeschool our children.
I will keep a beautiful house.
I am frugal.
I will work every day for the family’s benefit.
I will support you in your career.
I will cook tasty, healthy meals from natural ingredients.
Education is important to me; beginning with my own education.
I think single cat ladies over 30 are losers.
I love sex.
I think it is important for a wife to have sex with her husband regularly, even if she is “not in the mood.”
Women who divorce for no good reason are a plague on society and their husbands and children.
I want to avoid divorce for all but the most extreme circumstances.
I could go on, but I already did in the Good Wife series. You get the idea. Obviously, a woman can say a whole lot of stuff, and what actually happens after you marry her is another thing. Also, there are some women who are pretty much brainless, and couldn’t formulate a list like this if you asked them to, but nevertheless actually have good behavior and make good wives, because they were raised well. Still, if a woman can’t even manage to blurt out some hypothetical virtues, a man is probably better off leaving her be. Let her be the table! Har!
Evie Magazine, for women, had a pretty good article that looks into the legal problems with marriage these days. Because … fifty years of men getting their guts torn out in divorce court, having done nothing wrong, after their dumb bitch of a wife says “I’m not haaaaaaaappy,” makes up some phony domestic violence claims, and steals his children, his money, and makes him a financial slave for decades afterwards, kicks him out of his own house to make way for her new fuckbuddy who sleeps in his own bed while his own children are in the room next door, while he has to call his old college friend to see if he can sleep on his sofa … does not matter to women. All is right and proper in the world, as far as women are concerned. But, finally, after men get a bit of a clue, and decide that they are not going to eat that shit sandwich … now it matters to women.
It’s working, men!
Men today actually want family and children. A few women will figure out that if they are men’s enemy — if these things do not matter to them, and in fact they encourage women’s legal advantages over men — then a smart man will not let them advance beyond the FWB level. You have to limit your risk. Unfortunately, this whole process will probably take at least another decade, and before it is over, I suspect that 30%-50% of White women (and men) will never marry. You can eat your shit sandwich all by yourself, girls.
Men today have two basic problems:
Of course, one leads to another. A woman with good character will not break up the family unless it is really, really justified, no matter what the laws are; also, she will not give her husband any reason to divorce her, and instead give him every reason to keep a good thing going (hint: great food and hot sex). One-sided laws have tempted millions of women to do destructive things that otherwise they wouldn’t have done.
Today, since the laws won’t change right away, this means that a man who thinks he can beat the odds, so very badly stacked against him, has to find a woman with very, very good behavior, or character — for example, a woman that will not divorce him because “I’m not haaaaaaappy” (no good reason at all). You have to be very selective, and even then, it is a roll of the dice since who knows what a woman will be like in 15 years.
These being the problems, the best kind of woman today is easily identifiable:
Are you this kind of woman?
If not, then you still might be able to get married, but only to a man who is too stupid to know what he is looking for.
Apparently, about 15% of women report that they have had more than one orgasm, at least once in their lives. This leaves 85% who have not.
That is appalling, actually.
Here, at Women’s Health magazine, Vivienne Cass says that “Many women are able to experience five to seven [in a row] easily.”
I consider it a husband’s duty to make your wife a five-to-seven girl. Because, who is going to do it, if not you? Then take a break, and do it again, and again.
This was in the comments section of an item by Henry Makow.
“In conjunction, the Illuminati has taught MEN to seek women who seek power and has destroyed men’s will to be spiritual leaders in a family or distorted their compass to lead via the porn culture.
Speaking from experience, as an international beauty, I’ve met and dated some of the richest men (including Trump) in the world and “nice” Christian farmers from SD and everything in between. I’ve had many marriage offers.
There are probably a few exceptions but in general – only super rich men can afford/want stay home traditional wives but they also want mistresses – a’ la Trump. But at some point the rich men become old farts and just don’t have the energy to have a wife and a mistress. So they either divorce their wife and marry a young trophy wife or if they are divorced, they finally settle down and marry a “mistress” a’la Melania.
I’m Melania’s age and met Donald Trump about the same time she did. Like her I had many choices- marry a stinky old gross rich man who probably wouldn’t cheat /leave me as they are too old. Or take my chances with a man my own age. I chose the path of a traditional man my own age. After being the good wife helping him climb the success ladder (Ivana) I discovered his mistresses and cocaine habit. (I know so many good women in my shoes) My X tells me today that I didn’t drive him to cheat. I was the model good wife but he said the culture brainwashed him to not appreciate me and think he was a loser if he DID NOT have a mistress.
Now the “nice” middle class Christian men I meet, my own age, expect/demand I work. Only rich men can afford to support a wife and when a man is rich (or relative to the woman) he will choose a woman 20, 30 plus years younger then himself.
So a woman is stuck, if she wants a non-cheating traditional man she must marry a man 50 plus years of age when she is in her 20s-30s Let me tell you something -its a spiritual and biological fact- No woman can truly Love a man that much older. It is a calculated compromise for security, that kills a woman’s soul, it’s not out of a natural hormonal oxytocin passionate love.”
I complain about women a lot here, but here is (at least by her own account) a Total Package: 10/10, model wife, prefers to be a stay-at-home mom, supports her husband in his career. It is distressing that even such a woman has such difficulties.
Although, I might add that she apparently divorced him. Justifiably, perhaps. We don’t hear what cash and prizes she gained as a result, or what he thinks of this, or what her children think.
Jackie Kennedy stayed married.
Most American women these days do not make good wives. If a man could know what is in store for him, over the next 20+ years, if he married a certain woman, I think that men would not marry 80% of American women today. They are a net negative. Often, a total disaster. I think about 20% of American women today make good wives. By “good” I do not mean very good, extraordinarily good, but only that a man, upon taking stock of a lifetime (or not) spent together, can say: she was a net positive. In the past, I think this was the case 60%-80% of the time, but the odds are much lower today.
A woman who does not want to be a Good Wife, as a matter of principle, should not marry. Nobody should marry her. Avoid those bitches. They are unfit for marriage. Unfortunately, this is common today. There are enough women already who want to be Good Wives, but fail. All women who are contentious from the outset, the feminists or #metoo nutjobs, those who insist on control, the gold-diggers who are in it for their own personal advantage alone, should be avoided, at least for any serious relationship. They don’t advance beyond the Friends With Benefits level.
It is actually quite easy to be a good wife. I did a series on the Good Wife earlier, which gave a series of things of increasing ambition by which a woman can be a Good Wife. But, I think the most important things were in the first post, a Good Wife Level 1.
Being a Good Wife is not the same as being a good student, or a good employee, or a good daughter, or a good neighbor. A woman can be all of these, and not be a good wife. This is very common.
One of the best guides for How To Be A Good Wife is Fascinating Womanhood. Just this book alone is a litmus test. A woman who wants to be a good wife is often eager to learn how to do so. But, many women think that nobody can tell them what to do. They want “freedom” without responsibility. This “freedom” is not really freedom, of course. She had that as a single girl. It is “freedom” to insist that others serve her whims. It is the “freedom” to be a narcissistic piece of shit, while everyone around her must make self-sacrifices, conform to her demands, and clean up her messes. It is “freedom” for me-not-thee. It is the “freedom” to do anything, and have everyone praise her actions no matter what damage they cause to others, or to herself. A man should give this kind of girl her “freedom” to be a train wreck all by herself. She does not advance beyond the FWB level.
So, if you are the kind of girl that is averse to reading a book like Fascinating Womanhood, you are probably unfit for marriage.
A woman does not have to get married. It’s OK if you don’t. Nobody is insisting on it. There are many, many men who wish that you would stop bothering them about “commitment.” Enough for a lifetime of transient relationships. But, nearly all women — I would say, more than 95% — want to get married eventually. We know this because 92% of White women have gotten married, eventually, despite all the difficulties involved. It wasn’t an accident, like catching the flu, or getting pregnant. You can’t get married by accident. So, if you think that YOU are not going to get married … good luck with that. I hope you change your mind before it is too late. The regret that many women feel drives them to a lifetime of antidepressants. And if YOU think that you are going to get married, but that you don’t need to be a Good Wife … well, good luck with that. For men today especially, that is a Hard Fail. No man should marry such a woman.
The basics of being a good wife are:
Do something productive. Provide benefit to your husband, children, family, and community. This is not very complicated, but it is completely the opposite of what many women think their role as a wife is, which is: to consume. To have others provide for her. To gain personal benefits. To manipulate all those around her to her personal advantage, and their detriment. To create work for others. To consume the benefit of others’ productivity, time and attention. Basically, to be a princess.
By providing for others, and for the benefit of the family as a whole, the Good Wife will benefit herself. It is not a zero-sum game. When both husband and wife are producing, instead of consuming, the result is shared abundance. Children will naturally demand a lot of time, attention and resources, so both parents have to be productive to meet this need. This is the main purpose of marriage.
Don’t make problems. A wife should be productive, and not make problems. This is very obvious in the case of an employee, and most women are able to be productive, in the context of a job, and not make problems. However, for some reason, as a wife, they like to make a ton of problems.
I made a long list of common problems in The Good Wife Level 1. Here are more:
I like the writing of Henry Makow. He simplifies things: don’t compete, criticize, complain, or control. Note that these are all politics, not production. Some women think they can have everything they want in the world if they just complain enough. Mostly, they just make their husbands sick of their shit. A woman can take part in the decision-making process for the family. This may include disagreements. But, in the end, she has to accept her husband’s decision. Ultimately, a woman will only be allowed to take part in the decision-making process if she brings something beneficial to the table. If she just introduces hardship and trouble, then she will get cut out of the loop.
https://www.henrymakow.com/000319.html
Excessive ambition. A woman can share her husband’s desire to be successful and have nice things. She can play an important role in the processes of achieving these things. But, if she thinks she is going to get everything she wants in the world — a nice house, children in private schools, fancy cars, international vacations — just by complaining a lot, then she is basically a useless piece of crap.
Spending too much money. Consumption rather than production.
Cheating. Blowing up the family.
Divorce/divorce threats. Commonly related to “I’m not haaaaaappy.” In other words, no good reason at all.
No sex. Attempting to control a man through withholding sex, or even just refusing because she is “not in the mood.” Once a week is a good commitment, even if “not in the mood.” And, what if you enjoyed it? Some women seem to have a principle of not enjoying it. Obviously, unfit for marriage.
It is easy to go on and on with these problems, but we can see that it is also easy to just not do these things. Any woman can manage to not do these things. If she also does something productive and beneficial to others, then she will end up with a positive overall score, and meet at least the minimum requirements of a Good Wife.
It isn’t difficult. But, you have to want to do it.
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