This was an interesting statistic, from the Institute of Family Studies:

Basically, at least according to the results of this survey (including how many lies I don’t know), there are a lot fewer ho-hos than we usually think. Even in the decadent 1970s, 21% of all women were virgins at marriage, and 43% had only one previous partner — in many cases, probably the man she married. Only 2% (supposedly) had 10+ partners. It’s too bad we don’t have numbers for the 1960s and 1950s.

Today, of course, the numbers are pretty badly skewed toward the 10+ range. The 18% number is in line with anecdotal evidence that about 20% of women today (or, maybe 15 years ago) were sluts. However, the good girls are gone quickly. They form lasting relationships at a young age, and get married. If you look among the single women remaining after age 26, there are a lot of sluts, hoes, and single moms. If 18% of women have 10+ partners at marriage, but none of these girls (typical) begin a relationship leading to marriage before Age 26, then 36% of the leftovers are Sluts and Hoes. Plus, the Single Moms and Fuglies — a category that grows over time, as there are many women who look good at 19 but not so much at 28.

In practice, the Slut cutoff is around 15-20 partners, I think. This is about the point at which women become incapable of forming a lasting monogamous relationship. So, it is not arbitrary, but reflects some kind of brain chemical change in women.

Here we have a video of women who like being housewives. What a concept!

A woman simply living at home is a Woman of Leisure. She gets real busy when children arrive. Today, a housewife is even more important if you want to homeschool your children. About 11% of all children K-12 are being homeschooled today.

Notice all the hemming and hawing these women feel the need to do. They have simply chosen to have children, and care for them.

When a man hears the soft and gentle tones of these women’s voices, and their enthusiasm for homemaking, the idea of having a family becomes an attractive notion.

Today, we have an epidemic of blown-out party girls and feminist Career Girls nearing 30, and looking for their Captain Save-a-Ho. Most of them will destroy their own families within ten years, and steal their husband’s house and children, while making him a financial slave for years afterwards to a woman he hates. Avoid these women.

For those younger women, and older girls: You can actually start at the finish line.

Some worthy commentary on the way women should be vs. the way they are.

Yes, I know that there are many millions of women who want to get married and have children, some time after they have their Epiphany/Whoredom Phase around Age 28. But, no man should marry a woman who will not be a Good Wife and a Good Mother, and these are exceedingly rare among the burned-out leftovers.

In 2018, when this video was made, it was not too many men that had come to these conclusions. But today, in 2021, most of the better sort of men have figured it out. Just as the man says in the video, it will basically come down to this: Women either get with the program, or they will be left by the wayside. There will be no “negotiation.” We have proven, in the three years since then, that 90%+ of women will never move beyond the Rationalization Hamster. There is nothing to “negotiate” with. Just irrational babble that amounts to: “me me me me me me!” Women like Dr. Helen Smith have shown that women can get it; and also, that most women won’t. Corporations and the government will be their “cleanup men.” Good luck with that, girls!

“Undead Chronic” is one of those strange apparitions on YouTube worth noting. His account is “Undead Chronic XIV” because he was already banned 13 times.

Basically, Undead Chronic is a Fuckboy. He is — you could say — the Fallen. The Degenerate. A Lost Soul. The Undead. A Zombie. A Denizen of the Underworld. Living in Hell. I don’t think he would be offended if I say this. One result of this –as was the case also with RooshV — was that he saw, firsthand, how women destroyed themselves.

He concluded that the only solution was: No Hymen, No Diamond. Women who aren’t virgins are a Hard Fail when it comes to marriage.

So, Undead Chronic, the Player of the Rotting Flesh, became more of an advocate of Chastity for Women than 97% of Christian pastors today. I have heard that his videos have become popular among some Christian circles, where older women use them as examples to show younger women.

Women who aren’t virgins are also a lot of fun. But, they are not for marrying.

Denise Austin, fitness trainer from the 1980s, shows women how it is done at Age 64.

The common pattern these days is that women chase fuckboys when they are younger. This ultimately results in a lot of trauma for women. Two things happen around Age 26-30. First, this is known as the Epiphany Phase. Second, they become Whores. They are not professional escorts, or OnlyFans girls, but they concern themselves not with the primary interest of Sluts (pleasure), but rather, economic benefit from men that they do not take much pleasure in. Their capacity for pleasure is burned out. They have lost their pair-bonding ability. They have had the experience, over and over, of pleasure leading to pain as their attempts at forming “a relationship” fail. Or, attempting to constantly “trade up” in endless hypergamy, they have formed the habit of dumping men who might have been willing to give them more than sex. They are carrying the DNA of too many men.

Then they are ready to “settle down and find a husband.” This is the Epiphany Phase, which also coincides with the common onset of Whoredom. They look at men primarily as dumb animals to be exploited, just as they feel that they have been exploited like dumb animals by the long string of Fuckboys that they have spent their entire adult life with up to that point.

Read Rollo Tomassi on the Epiphany Phase, 2012.

Thus, a woman who seeks marriage after Age 27 can be very different from one who seeks it at Age 17. It is not just her shrinking window of fertility, or a few wrinkles around the eyes. She is a burned-out husk intent on exploiting men to her advantage, rather than cooperating with men for mutual prosperity and benefit — being a Good Wife and a Good Mother. In this, she has an enormous amount of assistance from the anti-male legal system, which is exactly as she likes it, due to the influence of similar women who came before. This is why you Can’t Turn A Whore Into A Housewife. This is why they seem incapable of love. Do you “love” a cow before you slaughter it?

Dalrock: Why won’t these Peter Pan manboys man up and marry aging flighty selfish career gal sluts already? (2011)

I do not think “all women are like that.” There are a few who are virgins even at Age 28, and they actually might make good wives. But, unfortunately, most women over Age 26 are Whores, and Whores are Like That.

The Epiphany Phase normally consists of a decline in Sluttish behavior, as the woman learns that nothing much good comes of it. This seems like a return to some kind of Morality. A woman begins to seek a husband to form a family. She is driven by her biological urges, which informs her that she has not yet had children. She sees that raising children is best done with a family, rather than as a Single Mom. These are healthy impulses. But, it combines with her Whorish realization that the best way to get paid for her pussy, rather than giving it away for free as was the case up to that point, is by locking some man into the Lifetime Contract. Once she gets this Contract, she doesn’t even need to have sex with him anymore. What a deal! This is definitely the best possible Whoredom. And, she deserves it, having been so ill-treated by men up to that point. She can even get rid of him later, via divorce, and he will still have to pay her on the Lifetime Contract. She can even go and find some new fuckboys, and there is nothing her husband can do about it except — give her his house and children!

Although there are some women over Age 27 who really aren’t Like That, they are hard to identify. There is really no telling what a woman will do in five or ten years. This is a dangerous situation for men.

For thousands of years, girls were told not to be Sluts and Whores. Today, they have to learn the hard way. I hope that some girls will figure it out before causing damage that is too often irreparable.

We’re hearing more of the “can’t find a good man” line from women these days — mostly, women over 27yo. What were they doing during their decade of prime marriageability, attractiveness, and fertility, ages 16-25? What would these 30+yo women do if they found a good man, today? Would they be Good Wives and Good Mothers? Would they make him miserable for about eight years before taking his children and assets in divorce court? Are they even capable of having children?

Marriage is way too risky in general these days, but the risk/reward proposition is particularly bad among women over Age 26 who were doing something for the last decade besides Looking For A Good Man.

“Girls, we’re friendzoning all the good guys!” says Kristen Corley. Let’s see what she means.

“He’s not my type,” I said trying to justify my previous actions.

“Why because he treats you well,” my friend said completely calling me out on my bullshit.

But the truth was if I said I’m not attracted to him, he made it too easy and as much as the idea floated in my head considering it, I wasn’t interested.

I wanted to be. I would have loved to say I left that date and went right home instead of right to the nearest fuckboys house who I had been seeing more off than on.

And the only difference between these two guys was one kept me completely on my toes, one kept me guessing, one kept me playing this game I swore I hated. And I was more physically attracted to him than anyone I had ever met.

The other answered every text quickly, paid for everything, opened my door and told me exactly how he felt and on many occasions dropped whatever he was doing if I asked.

I cried that entire drive home. I cried because I knew what I deserved and I knew I was choosing the opposite. But the heart wants what it wants. And that was the problem.

We claim we want a good and decent guy but when we meet him, we look for every reason we don’t want to give him a chance. Maybe it’s his appearance. Maybe it’s his demeanor. Maybe he’s exactly everything we want and need. But we dabble with the idea, liking them one day, then ignoring them the next. Blowing up their social media one day then doing the casual fade out.

We like the attention but we don’t like it enough to reciprocate it. So we text them every few weeks just to boost our own confidence that they’ll answer and they do like us still.

But to look at someone who would do anything for you and someone who says all the things we wish someone else would, it’s disrespecting and hurting the one person who wouldn’t do the same.

I sat stag at an event looking more beautiful than ever and dropping more than I should have to impress someone who didn’t even respect me enough to show up. Again let down by the same person who continued to disappointment me.

“I would have come if you needed me there,” I read in a text that made me smile and frown. Despite it being 3 hours away and me not even considering asking him in the first place, the other guy would have been there.

I showed the text to my friend, “he might not be what you want but he’s what you deserve.”

That statement stayed with me.

Maybe we aren’t getting the person we deserve not out of bad luck but because we are choosing the wrong people.

We throw all these great guys in the friendzone claiming there is no spark but we don’t even wanna see if there will be. We run from all the right things into the arms of the person who is completely wrong.

My heart hurts for these guys. The ones who deserve the same type of love and affection they are willing to give. The guys who look at their best girl space friend and want nothing more than to delete that space and make them theirs.

The guys who are there every time she gets hurt. And when she questions her self-worth because of some asshole who doesn’t see her beauty, you are perplexed. Because you look at this girl like she’s the most beautiful one there is. And no matter how much you tell her, she doesn’t believe you because it isn’t coming from the guy she wants to hear it from. You keep your feelings quietly tucked away because you aren’t what she wants, so you stay friends hoping and praying for the day maybe it will hit her that you can be more than someone who dries her tears. Maybe you can be the one who doesn’t cause them at all.

My heart hurts for the guys who think they have to change and be an asshole because it seems that’s what girls want.

To those guys I say, don’t change. Don’t do anything different than be exactly who you are. And don’t settle in love simply because someone couldn’t reciprocate all you have to give. Because one day someone will. And they’ll be everything you deserve. And when you introduce them to your girl space friend I promise the idea will cross her mind, “that could have been me.”

And to the ladies who don’t give these good guys chances, one day you’re going to get tired of dating assholes and you’re going to look around at the person who was had been there the whole time and he’ll be gone.

This Good Guy is way too simp-y, but even so, this is what these 27+yo “I can’t find a Good Guy” women were doing, before they turned 27. Obviously, nobody wants to be the Good Guy. Everybody shits on that guy. They should be the Fuckboy, or at least, imitate one convincingly. Nobody should marry this woman, when she finally gets to her “I can’t find a Good Guy” phase a few years from now. Let her marry some idiot. Then, you can be her Fuckboy on the side, after she is married. These women eventually go looking for their Good Guy, but after they get married, they can’t give up their Fuckboy habit.

They say that “All Women Are Like That,” but I think it is more like: most women end up like that, after a decade of chasing fuckboys. They don’t start off that way. If Good Guys are going to have a chance at all, they need to look for virgins in the 18-20yo range. If Good Girls are going to have a chance at all, they have to avoid making the same mistakes that all the other women make.

Although I usually give guidance to (largely hypothetical) young women and girls here, sometimes our young men and boys need some help too.

In general, it takes longer for a man to mature than a woman. This is because, among other factors, men are more complicated than women. Women are largely imitators, and it is not too hard to imitate. Men are creators, which can involve a lot of trial, error and experimentation.

But, even so, men today take too long to grow up. Time to grow up!

For young men, or perhaps boys around Age 15, I would say: skip “youth culture.” You are eventually going to drop all that stupid “youth culture” crap anyway, so why not just drop it now? I mean: the clothes, the manner of speaking, the poor grooming habits, the music, and all the other things of that sort. Before 1960, people went directly from childhood to adulthood. The “culture” of a 19-year old college student was the same as his 50-year old professor. Boys became men without getting bogged down in “youth culture” for 15 years.

These young men are not playing dress-up for the camera. This was jus a regular day in Princeton in the 1950s.

Young college men during their free time.

A dance.

Serious young men. They also knew how to party.

Look to somewhat older and serious men that you admire, and imitate them. This might be men around Age 28-45. In the past, boys were naturally inclined to begin the transition to manhood around Age 13. This often involved beginning grown-up tasks like an apprenticeship in some useful trade or occupation. It often involved being in the company of other grown men.

Here is a painting of “Midshipman August Brine.” The year is 1782. The boy is thirteen years old. His father is Admiral James Brine. August Brine enlisted that year on a warship, the “Belliqueux,” under the command of his father.

The boy is on a warship at Age 13. Can’t you just tell he is going to be a badass? He became a Rear Admiral in 1822.

No childish things here. Look at his dress. Look at his manner. He is trying to be a man. Most American men don’t achieve this level of maturity even at Age 25.

No dopey dumbass “youth culture” for these young men.

The average time, we are told, between when a couple first meet, and when they get married, is 58.7 months. Much of this consists of a “virtual marriage,” of cohabitation, averaging 3.5 years. An astonishing 20 months typically passed between when a couple decided to get married, and when they actually did.

This is ridiculous. In the past, you didn’t have sex before marriage, but courtships often didn’t last more than a few months. Sometimes, they would be longer, perhaps for a girl to reach an acceptable 18th birthday, or perhaps a man was in school and not ready to support a household. But, sometimes courtships were three days long. When courtship is just a transition process to marriage, like a job interview, not a permanent state of “dating,” you end up with a yes or a no pretty quickly.

But, this also means that, if the median age of marriage is 28, already the highest in American history, then those women first met their husbands around age 23. They were gone. No longer single. Off the market. Women over Age 26 are leftovers. There is usually a reason they are left over. Mostly, it is because they couldn’t maintain a stable relationship, or didn’t want to, or are just too fugly.

We don’t really need any women to be doctors. Men can do all the doctoring, as they did in the past. No benefit has been gained from having women doctors. However, for every woman that is a doctor (and about 50% of med school students today are women), there is a family without a Mother at home. The children are neglected, shunted off to daycare, and eat frozen pizza every other night, with the usual health consequences. The children are later abandoned to public schools, where they are undereducated and brainwashed to be Marxist workerbees. Private schools, even superexpensive ones, are often not much better. When they are at home, they are abandoned to social media and video games, since Mom “needs a break” from the endless press of her job and the bare minimum of housekeeping duties. The culture as a whole declines, since a lot of “culture” has always amounted to: what people do at home. This is probably why about 40% of women doctors have gone either part-time or quit within six years after their residency.

If we assume that the doctor/population ratio is stable, then for every woman that becomes a doctor, there is a man that would have become a doctor, but did not. The woman took his job. This male doctor could have made a high enough income to support a family in comfort — including his wife, who could stay at home. His wife could take care of a lot of housekeeping and childcare duties, so that he could focus on his work, and still have some time to rest, and have time with the children. Instead, if we assume that a woman doctor is married to a husband who also works, that husband then becomes as overworked as she is. For every household duty that the woman doctor (quite rightly) pushes upon her husband, so that they equally share the necessary household tasks, the husband becomes as overworked as the wife, and equally prone to neglect the children.

Today, we need women more than ever in the home. This is because many of our social institutions are deteriorating or collapsing. Public schools used to be better. When I was in public school, in the late 1970s and early 1980s, it was not too hot but it wasn’t bad either. Today, you would be a fool to allow your children anywhere near those places. You have to homeschool, or, at least, find some acceptable alternative. The culture as a whole is a toxic mess. If you are not a part of your children’s lives, and presenting them with guidance and alternatives — throughout the day, not just during a few hours of “quality time” per week — they will default to the television and the norms of their peers. Basically, this means being sluts (for girls) and playing videogames (for boys), followed by porn. Have a beautiful house. This will take effort. Cook healthy food for your family, so that they don’t end up obese.

If you aren’t going to be a stay-at-home Mom, please don’t have children. You aren’t taking your responsibilities seriously. Just be a single woman. Take vacations in Greece. Have a string of noncommittal “boyfriends.” Contribute to society, perhaps by being a doctor, without the distractions of children and family.

If a woman doesn’t want to be a Stay-at-Home Mom, at least in principle, as a goal or aspiration, then don’t marry her. She doesn’t really want to be a Mom at all. She is not serious. Probably, she doesn’t really want to be a Wife either, and being overworked, plus subject to all the distractions and influences of working, she will not be a good one. There really isn’t a good reason to marry a woman unless it is to have a family. Otherwise, it is too risky, and unnecessarily confining. If she says that she wants to be a Stay-at-Home Mom, but is over Age 26, then she probably squandered her best ten years on Feminist crap, and is trying to remedy her ways, but is probably too far gone and too damaged to bother with. There are some good women over Age 26, but they are the exception. Usually, it is best to just find a younger woman.

If you are going to be a Mother, and have a family, then it is not too important to have a career that you would leave anyway. You don’t need a Feminist Merit Badge. You need a husband. I suggest starting early. Get married around Age 20. Do not get divorced. If you keep your husband happy, there is rarely any good reason for divorce.